Who's Life Have you Been Living? THE villain DRAGON or the heroic Phoenix.

Who's Life Have you Been Living? We have been programmed to believe, think, act, and react according to our agreements with our heritage, culture, environment, education, and society.

An agreement is an unknowing pact you took when you were being parented, educated, raised. An agreement is a thought-process you were programmed to adopt as an employee, soldier, a believer, and a citizen. Because of your upbringing, environments, and interactions, you live a life of influenced beliefs.

Those beliefs have affected you to some extent to lose touch with who YOU have the potential to be and what this journey of life is all about. What is difficult is when consideration is given relating to your beliefs, though-processes, feelings, and actions, from infancy to adulthood, would you agree that there are too many agreements to undo.

Who's Life Have you Been Living? Are you the Dragon in a Phoenix custom?

I know a person, and his peers know him as an outstanding community supporter, solider, leader, and mentor. This person dropped off backpacks at the beginning of the school year to at-risk schools, traveled around the world, and climbed the career ladder in the navy. He positively influenced many people's lives while he served in the military. He was served as a surrogate father (mentor) to many young men who feel under his leadership. The women always thought that he was a "catch."

My twice-divorced mastered-prepared friend of 17 years, who served this country for 20 years, is a prime example of distorted agreements learned as a youth. He has three luxury cars, a ½ million dollar home, assets and resources over seven figures, and a monthly income of $12,000. He has five children and was not in the house with any of the children for more than a year. He released his parental rights for three of the children when they were at a very young age, for another man to raise. Very little financial support was given to the other two after the age of eighteen, and minimum emotional support was ever given to four of the five children.

As adults, his children often express to their father, that he treated them like his soldiers when they were young. They missed out on the hugs, conversations, experiences like dinner at the table, being at their track meets, grocery shopping, etc. When I was the Director of Children and Families, I served many of his children in different capacities. I witness the agreements his children were adopting through people and situations that influenced them.

Through general conversations over the years, with the marine, ex-wives, and the children, I was able to answer some of my wonders- I wondered what beliefs, thoughts, and feelings he had rooted deep in his subconscious. I learned that his mother had committed suicide during his freshman year of college, and left him a letter, which he now has in a momentum box. The mother's desire for him and his sister was to continue their studies, join the military for structure, and to abandon poverty and embrace success. His father was often absent from his life, an alcoholic, and a good friend of the ladies.

All that he learned about building and strengthened relationships was through the lens of the navy.

What agreements contributed to him being a Dragon/Phoenix? As a youth, there were agreements of abandonment, mental illness, substance abuse, and a lack of displayed love from his father. Being a member of the warrior society- I understand his agreements as a marine included specific rank structure; sacrifice; go where told; do what was ordered, and fight an enemy.

I am not sure if this man is a Dragon or if he is a Phoenix? I do not know who life he has been living? This is for him to question and seek answers.

QUESTIONS to you?

Are you a Dragon hiding out in a Phoenix custom? Are you an alligator suited in the clothing of a bunny rabbit? The all-time favorite- are you a wolf in sheep's' skin?

Hit the reprogram button and UNDO each agreement- Right! You do have Freedom-Now- You are not a child, you are most likely in complete control of your own life. You can read, research, investigate, and apply inductive reasoning – SO

LET US DISCOVER YOUR TRUE SELF.

POWER JOURNEY CHALLENGE

In your mind, push everything to the back, breathe deep and feel about in your heart, search your dreams, desires, and visions - dig deep in your unconscious for what you want for your life experience. Most of us have not given much quality time to your dreams and desires.

It is essential to spend some defined time to determine what it is that you WANT. The way to do that is to determine what you don't want.

Review and Complete the file "Drafting The Life You Want"

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